Kink is an intrinsic part of our lives and that also extends to the media we consume. Every day is an opportunity to learn and explore more of this deliciously devious world we find ourselves in. We wanted to share some of our favourite kink and sex positive resources with you in case you should feel inspired to do the same.
For those of you who enjoyed consuming media aurally there are a wealth of podcasts that discuss kink and non standard sex & relationships. Miss K’s current favourite is the “Erotic Awakening” podcast where Master/slave couple Dan and Dawn talk about a variety of kinky topics including myths of the kink scene and ethical kink. They give their own opinions and sound advice while always reassuring listeners that theirs is not the only “true way” to experience BDSM. Miss N has been loving listening to “Sex out loud” with the famous author Tristan Taormino. This podcast covers everything from BDSM and non monogamy to sexual politics. Tristan frequently interviews fascinating guests using her position as a sex educator to produce quality content. Other podcasts we enjoy are listed below…
Holly Randall Unfiltered
Sex Nerd Sandra
Ending the Sexual Dark Age
Life on the Swingset
The Flirting Fox – All the Sex
There is also a wealth of sexy, kinky books and magazines that we enjoy and recommend. Miss K’s favourite author of erotic stories is Nancy Friday. She specialises in collating stories of men and women’s ultimate sexual fantasies which often include explorations of kink. Her books are great for reassuring you that other people enjoy the same naughty fantasies as you. Miss N’s number one recommendation is “The Ultimate Guide to Kink” by Tristan Taormino. She feels it is an unparalleled resource which gives you a glimpse into kinks that you would never even have considered. Both of us adore reading and other books which we have enjoyed include…
SM 101 by Jay Wiseman
Living M/s by Dan and Dawn
Enough to make you blush: Exploring erotic humiliation by Princess Kali
The topping and bottoming books by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
When someone you love is Kinky by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt
The Sleeping Beauty series by Anne Rice
We would love it if you could find your own favourite from these lists and we hope you enjoy these different ways of exploring kink. If you have a particular favourite not on this list we would love to hear about it!
MN & MK xx